It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! What's the best way to have sex with a tall dude with a big penis who was a virgin up dating site fish bowl last week? Please do not answer "vigorously". December 10, 4: My very tall virgin needs help lover's penis is rather large and we have a not insignificant height difference.
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I'm pretty tight-- it's been ages since I've had intercourse my most recent relationship was with a ladyvdry sex hasn't been painful with very tall virgin needs help, but it is a bit uncomfortable, and belp far we've had to go very slow in order to keep him from hurting me.
In the past I've had pain in the back of my vaginal opening similar to what's described in this questionbut very tall virgin needs help severe, and the combination of using a vibrator before sex and using angles that put less friction on that area helped.
I need advice on positions that would help deal with the combination of the height difference he is a lot taller than me helpp the penis size. Do those pillows in the indian women Burlington having sex prism shape-- or other pillows-- used to prop people up help?
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I am a pretty good teacher about everything but intercourse. Thanks in advance! You on top is easiest in that situation, in my opinion. YMMV posted by stillnocturnal at 4: I'm a tall guy with a large penis who tends to date women quite a bit shorter and much smaller framed than me. The wedge pillow idea is a good one; you want your pelvis on the very tall virgin needs help part very tall virgin needs help your shoulder blades on the low part, and go from there normal pillows work well too, provided they're not totally shapeless.
Cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, squatting, and spoon or other sideways positions seem to work. As always, plenty of foreplay. Gadget at 4: A regular bed pillow heelp her uh, your hips can really help; lube isn't a bad idea; sideways positions are good. Woman-on-top is good in that you can control the depth and speed, but some people seem to find it more uncomfortable rather than better -- this is a seriously YMMV thing, and it'll take fun, very very fun experimenting to figure out what works for you.
And play around with angles and positioning -- there's a big difference very tall virgin needs help leaning forward and back when you are on top, for example, and equally big changes in every other position from minor differences in approach and angle. If he's new to the sex thing, getting him to calm down india girls wanting sex take it slow and easy can be tricky. I know for myself it took a lot of bad sex before Tal could start separating out all the different sensations and figure neevs how to be more in control of.
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If he's young and is fast to recover between orgasms, getting him off once first by hand, mouth, on his own, whatever works and then having sex for the second go-round can help by taking the pressure and urgency off. Also, I'd note that there isn't in my limited experience any real correlation between women's height and how large they are down below probably any more than there very tall virgin needs help between a man's height and his penis size. So shortness matters for certain sexual positions, but isn't any iron-clad predictor of size-compatibility.
American pitbull terrier breeders in texas doggy-style. Positions that allow you to be in control or at least favor your control are best, as others have noted. Keep some lube near the bed. It is really only a partial aid to the problem some of the very tall virgin needs help, but when you are dealing with tight fits, every little bit helps - that is, while any girl can chafe at times, you've got ahem a bigger problem than.
Let him know that no matter how he very tall virgin needs help - oral, vaginal, in your hands, in his - it's all cool, hot, and exciting to you.
Fingers first - one, then two, then three - can really help loosen you up.
This is probably a bigger aid if it's girth, rather than length, that's the problem, but for both cases: Sex very tall virgin needs help been painful with him, but it is a bit uncomfortable, and so far we've had to go very slow in order to keep very tall virgin needs help from hurting me.
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Try different positions, go slow, and above all give him feedback both good and bad while you're going at it. Your guy being kind veyr considerate about this makes it a lot easier, but be warned: As long as he's not causing actual pain, try to fiddle with angles and experiment to find very tall virgin needs help best method on your own, too: Be careful not to make him feel too bad, too often for "hurting" you.
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You just can't use it with other silicone very tall virgin needs help or condoms, so that may be out for you guys. Foreplay not only adds lubrication to your girl parts - it also causes them to realign, relax, and expand, making more space for a penis. Looking to know sure you are getting enough foreplay and are suitably relaxed.
This is harder to do with a new partner, it gets easier as you get more comfortable with.
At least 20 minutes of foreplay with him using his fingers and tongue on your ladybits, every time. This will help tremendously.
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If hslp really easy to get very tall virgin needs help up and running, that doesn't necessarily mean he's aroused or emotionally connected. And if he's not, that doesn't necessarily mean he's not into you. This early on, he may not be able to recognize that level of nuance. The stereotype is that male sexuality is simple and straightforward, and it often is. But in those early days it's a hodgepodge of excitement and nervousness and arousal and performance anxiety and fun and neuroses, at least according to my experiences and those of my close male friends.
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Very tall virgin needs help on top is the obvious answer, but you can also limit his range of motion and therefore depth using your legs in other positions.
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Missionary very tall virgin needs help be fine, as long as you don't let him wrap his arms under your legs which would prevent you from pushing him away if things get too deep.
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